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Are you blind Dating !
Are you blind Dating!!
So, going on a fist date, a bit excited or should I say nervous
or having fear of facing the unexpected or unacceptable. Well it
happens and can be avoided too if you prepare yourself
accordingly. Over a period you become more mature and know how
to handle situation and react. You may get many sites
advising you, giving you tips on dating, but how if I share
my personal experience with you?
Make sure you make a right selection of outfit and accessories,
as first impression has a very big impact. The first impression
last forever in most of the cases or till you meet next time
with a much notable change in you , well I don't mean you wear
your best party gown or suit in a outdoor lunch meet. This will
be too loud and uncomfortable to both of you.
I only grow my Socrates beard and stay in the same pair of denim
for 15 days, the time I am single and not looking. You can't
afford to be lethargic and cut down on toilettories and
laundries once you initiated the divine hunt of ideal partner or
already planning a honeymoon. It's a universal fact that most of
the women in the whole world, irrespective of their culture and
upbringing crave for beauty and cleanliness, it's one of the
basic instincts they have.
Women need more mental preparation for the first date as they
start judging a man with his presence and visible personality to
judge a man which is like interiors by the great looking window
pane. Man exhibit more patience then they have on the first
date, I would say it is natural and they tend to loose the same
patience as relation goes stronger.
The male and female basic attitude developed over ages will come
to better terms slowly, it will take some more time for men to
understand the sensitivity women possess, and women will
understand the aggressiveness men live with. Am I elaborating it
too much, well knowing the basis behavioral characteristics is
the first important thing , the same principle of life will let
you overcome common misunderstanding arising from the basic
difference of attitude and behaviors of man and women around the
world.
A first date with known person of not much known always have
surprises waiting for you. If all goes well and there is an
ideal partner as a pleasant surprise in front of you then you
need remember the following not apply the and you have a gala
A Wrong date
If you make a date and then realize it's a mistake, don't be
afraid to cancel, as long as it's not at the last minute. Better
to be honest and disappoint the guy or the lady than subject
yourself to an evening you'll hate.
A Blind Date
If it's a blind date set up by friends, or for some other reason
you've never actually met the person you're going out with, keep
your escape options open by meeting in a public place for "just
a cup of coffee." Be "on the run" when you show up, to be
pre-excused for a fast getaway if you don't like him or her. If
you can tell in the first fifteen minutes that there's no way
you ever want to see this person again, don't prolong the agony.
Say something like, "Look, something tells me we're not a match
made in heaven. I'm glad we met, but I really don't want to
waste your time. Let's both get back to our busy lives."
Eassssie....
If you are meeting someone you know than do some informal outing
instead of a full-evening first date, enjoy some lighter moment
by having a coffee at river-side in the afternoon or maybe some
popping corns in a nearby multiplex watching your favorite actor
in action. If it's a holiday then start with breakfast or at
least lunch to have an open-ended date for the day.
Qualifying round
Make a genuine effort to know each other, ask question with good
eye contact and sincerity. Do not throw your intro thru riddles,
make is simple and to the point. Show interest in knowing each
other but don't make the conversation too
A white trail to talk
If your date asks you about your ex, and you can't avoid the
subject, talk in a gracious and kind way. If you badmouth your
ex, (or exes), the person listening thinks "Why were you so
stupid as to be with someone who was such a jerk?" Or, "Were
they that awful when you met them, or did you drive them to act
that way?"
Start fresh, reap good thought
Men and women both are drawn to people who are enjoying their
lives. Your date is not your therapist. Don't go into your
troubles. As I've explained elsewhere, no one wants to be around
a depressed man or woman, unless they themselves are too sick to
have a good relationship with.
No, let's be friends
Don't be shy about cutting a first date short if you don't think
you'll get along. If you just know that the person isn't right
for you, and you're having a terrible time, you aren't stuck.
Say something like I suggested above, then, as you're leaving,
be friendly and offer to help each other. "You know, I do have a
friend who might be right for you, and I'll be happy to fix you
up. Maybe you know someone who would like to meet me."
Well if everything goes in right direction conforming to the
general or exceptional laws of attraction, then you don't need
to follow the versus of L'Omens,
Guys I am getting late, its my first date today with Ms.
Reporter ( We met
online on www.wheresinglesmeet.com ) and I am preparing for
the interview, interview, guess what she may ask!
About the author:
Hi. I'm Mark Miller, a New York-based engineer and avid explorer
on dating and relationship area. I love to help you develop
strategies and actions to improve your chances of connecting
with the right person.
Mark Miller
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